I am 19 Years old guy from Pakistan, I dont smoke,dont lie i dont like to watch girls in market, i dont use slang language, i am not stylish, i am simple person with simple
dress wearing, But, really i dont know, i didnot get any good sincere girlfriend.. girl dont like to friendship… couple of time, i got to chat with sms msging chat… but
friendship never take long…. My hobbies are good, i like internet, mIRC, Chat, Books, Newspaper Editorials…
FEW of my mates, who use slang language, smoke, lie much.. some are stylish and some are simple but all have good girlfriends, not only one girl friend, each of my friend have more then 2/3 girlfriends.
there have a problem in me as well, i am weak studies, i cant constrate much in studies.. as same i cant attract girls…
IS ANYONE HAVE ANSWER OF THIS SITUTATION ? Am i MaD ?
May 2, 2010 at 5:06 am
Dude smoke marijuana i swear it will change you!….. It’s not bad bro try it!.
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May 2, 2010 at 5:54 am
Don’t smoke! It horrible to even try and it might change your life but not in a good way. Most women prefer to have men that don’t smoke. Just wait in time you’ll get a girlfriend
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May 2, 2010 at 6:05 am
i think ur just looking for the wrong girls. ur friends sound like the ‘bad boy types’ and u sound like the ‘library’ type. and honestly they dont attract the same girls. play to ur strenghths. i suggest dont be like ur friends tho. ur naot mad ur just a little confused on witch girls 2 like
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May 2, 2010 at 6:34 am
hey come on brother ; just relax ; you are fine . don’t worry ; it’s just matter of time ; when you will find someone ? now you just think about your studies . take care & god bless you .
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May 2, 2010 at 6:49 am
Hi there! I want you to remember what I am going to write. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! You are a decent, caring man. The kind of girls that your friends attract are not what you want. You deserve someone who is as sincere and caring as you are. There are women out there looking for someone just like you. In the long run, a woman does not want a player or someone who is superficial. You will see. As you Mature and age, the type of girls that you deserve will flock toward you. Just give yourself the gift of time and realize that you are truly a “catch”. Young girls do not look past the present and what is in front of them for the most part. It takes a bit of maturing on their part to actually know what they want and what is best for them. Again, there is nothing wrong with you. In fact, you are doing everything right. Hang in there! Your time is coming. I wish you all of the best that life has to offer. Good luck to you!
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May 2, 2010 at 6:56 am
when ur talkng to a girl, jst b urself.
dont try to b anyone ur not. and im a girl (all guys i meet tell me im attractive) and i fall for assholes..but when i find out theyre not good guys, i stop talkng to them. im looking for a sweet guy like u…and im sure in pakistan there r lots of girls like me..
jst first b friends with a girl. if u can make her laugh then thats all it takes. b funny and sweet.
and dont smoke or lie or any of the other things.
my bf smokes and i hate it.
im trying to make him stop.
ur a nice guy and ull meet a nice girl. jst try to b friends first and then c if u have feelings for her.
if u do then go and tell her and mayb she might feel the same way back and then u will get a proper girlfriend.
but focus on studies. theyre more important. girls will come and go…studies determine ur life.
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May 2, 2010 at 7:02 am
im from pak lahore, first of all you are fine you are an average guy who needs guidance. don’t look at your friends…in fact make new friends.. talk to people who are your type and meet with their friends… i m sure you have a lot to learn and know its not the glamor that you should look for. in our society its not like how its in the west.. we have our own environment and way of doing things. your friends might be copying the indians and the americans but in the end they are just doing out of inferiority complex. your a smart guy you just need to figure out what type of a person you are and what type of company you should keep. You need to make friendly talks with the girls in your school and in your family and communicate. Remember its not important to have a gf, but its important to have a friend who would understand you and love you for who you are…..just try to make that self image of your self right.. study and work hard. You reap what you sow…. follow your mind and heart not people who copy other nations.
Cheers
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May 2, 2010 at 7:55 am
You are looking for the wrong girls and your buddies who have them are looking for the right ones ! ;P
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